Staying tender and needy before God

By Dave Henning / January 22, 2018

” . . . if we remain paralyzed and if we refuse to risk staying tender and needy before God, then we are risking . . . missing out on the opportunity for closeness and intimacy with him and with others.”- Ann Swindell

Ann Swindell concludes Chapter 8 of Still Waiting as she underscore the inherent danger in risk.  Yet, whether we’re waiting for material or spiritual blessing, it’s our choice to keep risking.  In fact, risking is the only choice available.  Since we can’t predict the ultimate results of our actions, essentially we risk all the time.

As a result, Ms. Swindell explains why the only way forward involves risk.  Ann states:

“Risk is the only way forward, even — and perhaps especially — if it’s the continual risking of our hearts before the Lord, the risk of giving him all our desires without knowing what would happen.  This is scary business, treacherous heart territory.”

However, it’s far worse to miss out on staying tender and needy before God.  Because unexpected freedom arises from riskiness.  Instead of confusion, repulsion, or awkwardness, we find a place, Ann notes, “where grace cracked wide open.”

Therefore, such moments offer a surprising gift.  As you share your brokenness with others, they share their brokenness with you.  Also, as Ann’s found, shared brokenness leads us to shared hope.  Not despair or wallowing.

Finally, the author exhorts, your place of risk becomes a place of deep connection with God.  Ann describes how to learn of God’s goodness and presence in deeper measure:

“When I open myself to vulnerability with God, I have the opportunity to learn of his kindness and love more richly.  These attributes can’t be learned any other way.  Real love requires risking our hearts with him.  We know this because we have the best model for risking and living vulnerably before Father God: Jesus himself.”

Today’s question: What Bible verses hymns, or Christian songs help you stay tender and needy before God?  Please share.

Tomorrow’s blog: Healing and restoration”

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