“I’ve heard people say it’s not worth splitting hairs over the difference between happiness and joy, but there certainly is a difference; one is primarily based on our emotions and circumstances, and the other is the byproduct of the Spirit of God working within us. The first is primarily external, while the second is primarily internal as the Spirit of God produces the fruit of Christlikeness in and through us, regardless of our external circumstances or challenges.”- Chip Ingram
“Joy is the serious business of Heaven.”- C. S. Lewis, Letters to Malcolm: Chiefly on Prayer
In his Introduction to I Choose Joy: Change Your Perspective, Change Your Life, Chip Ingram asks you to stop and think about this question. Who is the most joyful person you know? Furthermore, how do you feel when you’re around that person? Finally, what is it they have and how would you describe it?
However, Chip observes, over the past few years, most people’s joy quotient has taken a dive. Certainly, the pandemic birthed this decline. In addition, the escalating division in our country, multiplied it. Also, social media and cable news outlets stoked the fires. As a result, people deem all events inflammatory. And our culture always places the blame on someone else.
Above all, Pastor Ingram notes, even when we don’t say anything on the outside, we’re complaining on the inside. Consequently, in our internal self-talk we criticize ourselves. And just about anything and everything else.
And, Chip underscores, it’s one thing to talk about joy and know how joy is supposed to work. But it’s quite another thing to really experience authentic joy during tough times and adverse circumstances.
In conclusion, Chip counsels, avoid giving yourself permission to have a so-so attitude. To explain to yourself, in the light of all the negativity in the world, that it’s okay to respond in a less upbeat, pleasant, and joyful manner.
Today’s question: Is it worth splitting hairs over the concepts of happiness and joy? Please share.
Tomorrow’s blog: “The power of focus – in principle”