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Intercessory prayer

By Dave Henning / September 24, 2016

“Intercessory prayer . . . acknowledges our inability and God’s ability.  We come with empty hands but high hopes.”- Max Lucado Max Lucado begins Chapter 7 (“They Need Help”) of Before Amen with a three-part question.  What can you do when: the challenge is greater than you are? the hurt is palpable? you feel helpless […]

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Self-forgiveness

By Dave Henning / July 26, 2016

“At its root, self-forgiveness is a choice.”- Dr. Gary Chapman Gary Chapman concludes Chapter 12 of Anger with steps four and five of a positive approach to processing anger. 4.  Choose to forgive yourself.  Dr. Chapman states forgiving yourself has much in common with forgiving someone who has sinned against you.  You feel pained at […]

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At peace with yourself

By Dave Henning / July 25, 2016

“Be at peace with yourself and then you will be able to bring peace to others.”- Thomas A Kempis In Chapter 12 (“I’m Angry at Myself”) of Anger, Dr. Gary Chapman begins by listing reason you may not be at peace with yourself.  When we experience anger at ourselves, it is because we: perceive ourselves […]

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Cain or Elijah?

By Dave Henning / July 24, 2016

“Every person who feels anger toward God will follow the example of Cain or Elijah.”- Dr. Gary Chapman Today Dr. Chapman discusses the second and third steps in responsibly handling anger toward God. STEP TWO: Listen to God’s message.  Expressing our honest concerns to God puts us in a position to listen to His “quiet […]

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Our anger toward God

By Dave Henning / July 23, 2016

“The problem with our anger toward God is not the anger itself but how we handle the anger.”- Dr. Gary Chapman As Dr. Gary Chapman concludes Chapter 11 of Anger, he analyzes our anger with God as distorted anger.  Even though no wrongdoing occurs on God’s part, we still experience real anger.  In addition, Gary states, […]

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The call of God

By Dave Henning / July 22, 2016

“The call of God is that we trust Him in the darkness as we trusted Him in the light.  He has not changed, even though our circumstances have been painfully altered.”- Dr. Gary Chapman Gary Chapman begins Chapter 11 (“When You are Angry with God”) of Anger by observing that “Christians often experience anger toward […]

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Implosion destroys

By Dave Henning / July 20, 2016

Gary Chapman concludes Chapter 6 of Anger by analyzing how implosion destroys.  Next, Dr. Chapman delineates how to diffuse anger turned inward.  Often internalized anger expresses itself through passive-aggressive behavior.  Although the angry person gives the appearance of serenity, eventually the anger emerges in other ways.  Noncompliance illustrates such a response. On the other hand, […]

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Anger repressed

By Dave Henning / July 19, 2016

“Anger repressed can poison a relationship as surely as the cruelest words.”- Dr. Joyce Brothers “Anger was designed to be a visitor, never a resident, in the human heart.”- Dr. Gary Chapman Dr. Gary Chapman begins Chapter 6 (“Explosions and Implosions”) of Anger by noting that “implosive anger can be as damaging as explosive expressions of […]

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Human anger

By Dave Henning / July 11, 2016

” . . . I believe that human anger is designed by God to motivate us to take constructive action in the face of wrongdoing or when facing injustice.”- Dr. Gary Chapman “A man is about as big as the things that make him angry.”- Winston Churchill In Chapter 2 of Anger (“When Anger Can […]

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Processing our anger

By Dave Henning / July 8, 2016

“All of us can learn much about processing our anger more effectively.”- Gary Chapman Gary Chapman, author of The 5 Love Languages originally wrote Anger: Taming a Powerful Emotion in 1999.  Previous title-  The Other Side of Love.  In the Introduction (“Our Angry World”) of Anger, Mr. Chapman clearly states that many of us have issues […]

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Anger toward God

By Dave Henning / April 25, 2015

As Sara Horn continues Chapter 9 of How Can I Possibly Forgive?, she points out that the mistake we make in getting angry with God is that He is our only true source for receiving he help and peace we need.  We are implicitly saying that God is worse for us than better, that He […]

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Seasons of rumble

By Dave Henning / April 4, 2015

In Chapter 3 (“In Seasons of Rumble”) of How Can I Possibly Forgive?, author Sara Horn notes that when rainstorms occur in Louisiana, the rumble of thunder miles away can go on and on for a long time.  While the rumble of thunder is subdued, you definitely know it is there.  The sound keeps going, […]

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